If that's the case, what if you want to add people you know who just have the game you wish to play but you don't have them as a friend on the system?
Then obviously you would just add them to your address book instead.
I mean isn't the wii limited to 20 friends. Seems even more limiting if you ask me.
You can have 100 friends in your Wii Address Book.
For reference, you can have 100 friends on your Xbox Live and PlayStation Network friend lists.